The Only Thing Holding You Back is You!
What would the New Year be without an inspirational blog post, right?
“Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.”
-Norman Vincent Peale
Confidence – something we all struggle with from time to time, I’m sure! Much has been said about this subject, but I’d like to add my own observations. So, here it goes…..
I was fascinated by X-Factor this year. The word admiration comes to mind as I watched the contestants get up on that stage and sing their hearts out in front of who knows how many millions of people; some with an “I’m the best” attitude, some with an “I’m very nervous, but I can do this” attitude and some with a very quiet, humble self confidence in their ability. I’m sure that all of them where equally nervous in their own way, but, of course, not all of them shared the same talent. What I find most interesting is that the ones with the most talent, usually are the most humble and don’t get the deserved attention. As a matter of fact, when choosing the final acts to go to the live shows, numerous judges mentioned that confidence was a big factor. It isn’t fair, but then again what is ever accomplished without confidence.
When you run a business, it is imperative to portray a humble but reasonable confidence in your own abilities and in your business to put your employees and customers at ease. If you, (the business owner) don’t feel that, how can you expect your customers or employees to put their trust in you? On the other hand, if you are overly confident but can’t back it up with your abilities, products or services, does that make you trustworthy or successful in the long run?
Consistency is key! We all experience ups and downs, but eventually your track record will stand for itself and there will be no more denying your abilities. Accept that nothing will ever be completely perfect and go for it! If you are still struggling with confidence, I suggest you choose a mentor, someone you can follow on line who shares your values and believes; watch closely and learn from the best.
I thank all the mentors and teachers I’ve followed this past year and who have helped me come to this conclusion: This year, I’m aiming for humble but reasonable confidence in my abilities and powers!










