It’s Just a Matter of Time
What I love most about being a Virtual Assistant is that I meet so many interesting people and some of the thought provoking lessons I learn on a daily basis are worth sharing with you. To add some spice to this little blog of mine, I’ve decided to add some of these great teachers as guest bloggers - a big thank you to Steve Hartkopf of Aligned-Marketing for his contribution!
It’s Just a Matter of Time by Steve Hartkopf of Aligned-Marketing
Highly successful people understand how the past, the present and the future relate to their life, happiness and success – today and tomorrow!
There’s an old saying: “Those who live in the past are destined to repeat it.” We’ve all met people that are trapped in the past. It’s either some idealized perfect-past, such as their childhood, or some dark-hole past they’re feverishly trying to escape, such as an ugly divorce. Wherever they go and whatever they do, nothing truly changes because they’re dragging an anchor (their past) behind them.
Some people, in contrast, are trapped in the present. What happened is yesterday’s news so why worry about it; tomorrow, as they say, is promised to no one. Their world is highly tactical. They have no time to reminisce and are incapable of seeing around the next corner and into the future. There’s nothing inherently wrong with their approach but, in my experience, life doesn’t deliver great things to our doorway just because we’re good people, we have to earn our success.
Then there are those who are driven by visions of the future, the dreamers. I enjoy being around these people because their world is full of possibilities, limitless. They’ve taken delayed gratification to an art-form and everything they do is about tomorrow. Each day is a quest. They will do wondrous things once they get organized and have time to truly get a round to it. For most, unfortunately, they never find their “round-to-it.” Maybe it’s in their garage?
These are extreme examples, of course, but the broader point of being a prisoner in one time frame is extremely limiting. If you want to be successful and enjoy the life you always imagined, you may need to work on understanding and expanding how you relate to the past, present, and future.
Most of the truly successful people I’ve known are able to transport themselves between each of these time references in a blink of an eye. They use the lessons of the past, both distant and recent, as a foundation to build their dreams for the future and understand that the linkage between the past and the future is today – the present. That’s how they maintain their sense of urgency, their energy, and their focus.
Want a better future? Remember: It’s Just a Matter of Time!

